Q. Why do you say that women are the highest and at the same time the most deceptive? Could you explain this contradiction?

A. Women have had a tough role. They deeply desired a male and children, and in order to get a mate, the best she could do is find a potential, in other words, a male that has a good potential to be a good mate.

She realized that she has to think inwardly in private and outwardly play a game to deal with this male who has been fabricated by the circumstances of his life --- parenting, the school system, the entertainment industry, as well as the ancestors, and then between religion and medicine, he became a slave.

So, she painted her lips and became desirable. She gift wrapped her parts and used her intimacy as a tool and live her life discovering the deceived, and the resulting chaos was deserved by both.

Men are guilty of deception also. He deceives to prop up the facade of masculinity, while she deceives to stop the deception. He is wrong because he doesnˇ¦t know he is living an illusion, but she deceives to penetrate that illusion. And in that condition, they marry and unfortunately have children. They try desperately to be a good couple which seems impossible, because they fail to be honest singles.

Men cannot walk away from his illusion, because that has been his makeup. He doesnˇ¦t know that he is living an illusion. However, she does and she knows his illusions. Her highest head see the illusion and try to eliminate it, but because she eats and thinks incorrectly, she manipulates the illusion to achieve her intention.

It is a major dilemma, because down deep, they both desire the joy of equality and the security of a pure love --- a love that overrides needs. But because there is no example from any quarter --- the schools and the universities, the religion and governments, they have created themselves out of a great solution.

Einstein said, ˇ§that the problems we create at this level of thinking cannot be solved at this level of thinking.ˇ¨ That is to say, we cannot change things unless we change our value system and the way we think. Our Place is the only place, and in order to have all of its gifts, we must heal ourselves. That is the true beginning of the real reality.

All the very best,
Ray
Nov 2007, LA